
Black Friday and Cyber Monday show up on the calendar at the same time every year. Somehow, they still catch a lot of businesses off guard. Every brand under the sun hits the inbox at once, and the emails that get thrown together the week before tend to get buried, or worse, land in spam.
The good news? You don’t need a huge budget to win your share of holiday sales. You need a plan, a healthy list, and emails people actually want to open. Let’s break it down.
Get Your List Ready Before the Rush
Deliverability is the part most people skip, and it costs them. Mailbox providers watch how people react to your email. If you suddenly blast your whole list after months of quiet, that looks a lot like spam.
Here’s what to do now, not in late November:
- Clean your list. Remove bounced addresses and subscribers who haven’t clicked in six months or more. Dead weight drags down your sender reputation.
- Run a quick win-back. Send one to three emails to inactive subscribers. Keep the ones who click, then let the rest go.
- Warm up your volume. If you plan to send more than usual, start ramping up a few weeks early. Increase sends gradually so the spike doesn’t come out of nowhere.
- Check your authentication. Make sure SPF, DKIM, and DMARC are set up, and that one-click unsubscribe is working. Gmail and Yahoo expect it from bulk senders.
Think of it like stretching before a race. Skip it, and you’ll feel it on game day.

Segment So Every Email Feels Relevant
Sending the same email to everyone is the fastest way to get ignored. Your best customers, first-time buyers, and people who have never purchased all want different things.
A few simple segments go a long way:
- VIP customers: Give them early access. It rewards loyalty and gets sales in the door before the noise peaks.
- Recent browsers: Show them the products or categories they already looked at.
- Never purchased: Lead with your strongest offer and a clear reason to buy now.
You don’t need dozens of segments. Three good ones beat one giant list every time.
Plan Your Timing and Send Cadence
Here’s the deal: BFCM is no longer one weekend. Shoppers start looking early, so your campaign should too.
A simple cadence that works for most small businesses:
- Early to mid November: Tease the sale and invite people to sign up or join an early access list.
- The week before: Send early access to your VIPs.
- Black Friday through Cyber Monday: Send your main offer, a reminder, and a “last chance” email.
- After Cyber Monday: Extend the sale for non-openers or wrap it up with a thank you.
Plan it all out on a calendar and schedule what you can. Rushing content out the door at midnight does nobody any favors.

Write Subject Lines That Stand Out
Your subject line has one job: earn the open in a crowded inbox. Be clear first and clever second.
What works?
- Lead with the offer or benefit (“30% off everything through Monday”).
- Add honest urgency when it’s real, like an end date.
- Test an emoji, but only if it fits your brand.
- Keep the preview text working too. Don’t waste it on “View in browser.”
If you use AI tools to brainstorm, give them details about your audience, offer, and tone. Simple prompts get simple results. Then edit what comes back and make it your own.
Don’t Forget Cart Abandonment and Follow-Ups
Some of your easiest holiday revenue comes after the click. Shoppers fill carts and get distracted. A short abandoned cart series (one to three emails) brings many of them back.
Then keep the relationship going after the sale:
- Send a thank you and order confirmation that feel human.
- Follow up with care tips, related products, or a review request.
- Invite new buyers into a welcome series so they don’t become one-and-done customers.
BFCM shoppers are new relationships. Treat them that way and they’ll come back long after the holidays.

Bottom Line
There you have it: clean and warm up your list, segment your audience, plan your cadence, write subject lines that earn the open, and follow up after the cart and the sale. Start now, keep it simple, and test as you go. Your future self, and your inbox numbers, will thank you.
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View all postsHank is a coach, consultant, author, speaker, and podcast host. With a passion for all things digital and social, combined with more than 25 years of experience in sales and marketing, he has been dubbed the Digital Marketing Infotainer because he makes marketing fun and successful.